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Living Life Happily

This is what humankind has been striving for a long time. To live a life happily. This pursuit of happiness has led to many comics, books, poems, movies, debates etc in our lives and in the past. You must have read self help books, watched talk shows and done yoga. Here I will give you something new. Something that is out of the ordinary and yet it works pretty well for me.

What have I got?
I got Bonku.

Who is Bonku?
An imaginary figure who does everything wrong, in the most hilarious ways imaginable. Also you can pin all the blame on him easily. If there's a cyclone point the finger at Bonku. Someone hates you for no apparent reason? The reason is Bonku. Do not know a particular answer to a question? It's Bonku's fault.

This is a completely meaningless picture and has no relevance to the topic at hand. Any attempt to find it will lead to failure and a complete waste of time. Thanks. :D


For your convenience you can give a size and shape to Bonku. Over time he may have more human attributes to make him sound more real. This is a rather funny way to deal with unwanted stress in life and would likely help you focus your thinking where it is absolutely necessary.

Give it a try! :)

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